If you have a conversation with someone and ask them questions to find out who they are, where they live and what they do...
1) Do they ever think to respond by asking questions about you?
OR
2) Do they latch onto anything and everything you try to tell them about yourself by telling you something else about themselves instead?
If you meet someone like this, here is a game you can play...
Keep them talking and pump them to find out everything you can about them. DO NOT LET them find out anything about you!
Keep playing the game for as long as you can, move the conversation on if they ask a questions about you by asking them another about them.
Remember YOU WIN only if, when the conversation is over, they have learned nothing they did not already know about you.
With some people you can play this game over and over again. You allways win easily but the strange thing is...THEY NEVER EVER REALISE WHAT YOU ARE DOING!
Very satisfying...